He Beats Me but...

March 10, 2006

It's ok Again.

Things are better.

I'm trying to stay positive.

Make positive changes.

Make things better.

I Still Love You xxx

...x...x...x...x...x...x...

9 Comments:

you have somewhere to go if you want to!!!!! the invitation is and always will be open.

in my heart and thoughts always

By g, at 4:08 PM

You have to leave this guy.

Its all good hoping for the best. But is not enought to hope. Leave before he kills you. If he is ever going to change, that is the only thing that could hope to do it.
The longer you stay there in that situation, the harder it will become.
The longer you stay there, the more power he gains over you.
The longer you stay there, the more accustomed to it you become. The more accustomed to it you become, the further he can push it each time.
Eventually, you reach a point where you cant push any further, you're dead.

Do you have kids?
If you do, their welfare is obviously your top priority too and growing up around a man like that, in an environment like that, is not good for them. Think of all the messages they are picking up and receiving without their knowing and without your realising.
You're not just harming yourself by stay, you would be harming them too.

And if you do have kids, then would you really want them being raised by a man like that after he has killed you?

Just leave him.

Your life is worth more than that.

Realise, it is possible to love someone even if they are bad for you. But leaving them doesnt mean you dont love them, it just means that they dont love you enough to change.

By VanishWriter, at 3:55 AM

get in touch babe plz im really worried about you

By jak, at 10:15 PM

How much better?

By Revamp, at 4:17 PM

first off I was a child in abusive relationship,I hated both my parents. my father for beating her, my mother for not doing anything about it.

To stop the pain I went into drugs, from there theft, eventually almost killing my sister.

so just think about your children.

By Anonymous, at 11:51 PM

I can't believe you would put any of the blame on yourself. Frank obviously has anger, rage, emotional, and violence issues. I agree with the previous comment, 'leave before he kills you'. Also, how can you subject your children to such an environment? Would you want your little girl to grow up and live with a woman-beater? You need to open up your eyes and see Frank for what he really is - a manipulative, controlling, raging man. He needs professional help, none of your actions are going to change this man. I wish you the best, please be safe, or at least make sure that your children are. They dont deserve to grow up surrounded by violence.

By Anonymous, at 6:08 PM

Please put your children first. This man is damaged from an abusive childhood. You are doing the same to your own children.

By Anonymous, at 6:49 PM

Put your children first. Leave the man. It should be irrelevant whether you love him or not your children are more important let him sort his own life out.

By Anonymous, at 10:07 PM

Here you go Cookie, I hope this can help some.

http://forums.white-wolf.com/viewtopic.php?t=36542&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=0

I'm always here for you if you need me. :-)

By Luthaneal, at 12:28 PM